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Are You Frustrated with the Internet Dating Profile? Part 2


And somehow… 1000s and 1000s of people are “accidentally” finding and falling in love with each other on the Internet. It happens. But you definitely can improve your Internet dating profile and emails writing skills and make them “rock.”

However, of all the people who have tried the online dating profiles and so on… most of them quit the dating sites after a couple of months because of frustration. The main thing you have to remember is this… while there are some differences in approaches in online dating and meeting in the real world… there are lots of commonalities too.

You still have to be the best version of yourself. You still have to hold yourself in the highest regard… and you still have to respect MOTOS too.

So that means… always behave appropriately, don’t be a needy person… and don’t be an a-hole either.

And trust me on this one… just like in real life… there are going to be shallow and rude folks on the Internet. In my opinion… if a woman turns down your suggestions for meeting or doesn’t return your emails… so what? You may have dodged a bullet or she already has a lot of things going on in her life.

And by dodge a bullet… if a woman was acting like a prima donna… just imagine the poor sap that does go out with her… he is going to find out sooner or later that she is a terrible person to plan the future with.

Well, let me put it this way… just because a woman is “hot” doesn’t necessarily mean as a man… you are going to have a terrific time. Making love might be great… but if she makes you feel like crap all the time… is she really worth it?

I would have to say, probably not.

Do you see where I am going with this one? You need to decide what kind of woman you really, really want. For instance, my ideal woman is cute, funny, feminine, and has a good degree of self esteem.

Now, she isn’t going to be perfect… but darn near as perfect as she can be for me!

I don’t want to be responsible for making her happy… nobody can. But I do want to make her feel comfortable and safe. I want her to be what I’m not… a woman.

Do you see what I’m doing here? I’m not creating some image of fictional mega woman that promises wild sex 7 nights a week.

I’m looking for a terrific woman that is right for me.

And how do I find her? In the real world? Well, that is definitely possible but you are going to have to approach a lot of women “cold” in the streets. I think it is much easier to approach women on the Net… and if they reject or ignore you… no big deal. Just move on to the next one… there are 1000s of them to check out.

The next biggest tip is to never settle. Write down what kind of woman you want… and be realistic dude…

I really think you should give online dating profile a shot… if you haven’t done it yet. Put a little work into creating a GREAT online dating profile and find out how to write GREAT emails.. and Internet dating can be a lot of fun…

John

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