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Gaming is a Choice – Tips on Picking Up Women – Part 1
I wanted to preface this blog post on the differences for dating women… I think there are three major approaches that men use to find a mate. One group is the pick up artists. The second is the guys who learned how to become a masculine man that attracts high quality women for long term relationships. And the last group of men is the ones who don’t put any effort into learning how to make the biggest choice they can make that affects their life.
And don’t get me wrong… pick up artists or pua fill in a niche. They learned how to use human nature to attract and seduce women… mostly for one night stands. On the other side of the coin, the men who learned how to attract high quality women for long term relationships.
The choice of what type of guy you want to be is your choice. I would choose the one you are most comfortable with because PUA do have a reputation… but if that is the kind of guy you want to be… then I would definitely suggest you check out Mystery’s PUA program. It is a very good primer to get you on that path.
The Master Plan by Scot McKay teaches the men how to become the best version of themselves that is attractive to high quality women who are seeking guys for safety and security. This is a very good program for guys who want to be genuine and in control of their lives.
But back to this blog post… what exactly is gaming in the dating world? It generally refers to the concept of men hunting for women for pairing… and the very act of hunting is a game.
Now a lot of smart women with healthy self respect and self confidence won’t fall for games. They are wary of PUAs. And for a good reason. These types of women don’t want to be hunted and bagged. Or a notch on some dude’s bedpost.
Now the PUAs can be found at social events such as bars, the gym or even in the office! (Note: you really should never dip your pen in the company ink. It can backfire on you, and when it does… you may be looking for a new job.)
And PUA have a routine. Some of them are very effective because they practice and hone their craft until it is so smooth. Being a PUA usually means you have to have nerves of steel and very, very large brass balls.
They can be very suave and pushy. And their stuff works…
But is this what you want to see yourself? Being a PUA isn’t for every guy. You may also notice that many PUAs have street names. I think it is because they don’t want the girls they seduced to track them down.
But hey! If this is what you want to do… be my guest. Otherwise, you are way better off checking out The Master Plan or even Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo.
And ladies… there is a very good reason why guys need help with dating. You see, society changed… a lot! There is a lot of social pressure to make guys appear… well, less manly.
Don’t laugh… you know it’s true! Case in point… is most of the guys that actually approach you… date you… or talk to you… wimpy? Nervous? Needy? Desperate?
Blame the feminists and society for that… I believe women want to be treated like women… with respect and desire. After all, there is nothing more natural than a guy desiring a women or vice versa… right? So why is our society is so well, un-natural?
If you figure that out… let me know!
I’ll continue my thoughts for tips on picking up women in the next blog post.
For now, make your weekend a great one,
John
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