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The Best Dating Books for Guys
Today I want to talk about the Best Dating Books that I recommend for men.
But first of all, I want to tell you this… the opportunities for dating has NEVER been any better!
And the reason for that is because of this lousy economy. Nobody wants to go through it by themselves. I think it is just human nature that when things are bad… human beings tend to group together or seek someone to be with.
But that brings up one more thing to keep in mind… do not “settle” for the first person…
Now, there are two ways to go about it if you don’t have a clue about dating members of the opposite sex or you lack confidence.
And it IS a serious problem… that somehow we lost that ability to approach, attract and relate to others.
But we did… and the reason for that is society “programmed” us to fit in.
So women are taught that they must be submissive and be viewed as a “good girl” or they will be talked about as tramps or worst.
Which explains why many women are called a “frigid” or “lesbian” because it is the easiest way for guys to explain why they are rejected by a girl. (which is untrue of course)
And men are told by their mothers, other women and guys that have no business giving dating advice how to become… well, a woman with a penis. Ugh!
So you can see where this is going… both women and men try to adhere to what society tells them they must be because that is what is “best” and guess what?
Just about everyone that believes in that claptrap are massively unhappy with themselves and most of the time… the person they are with!!
Before you flame me in the comment section… I want you to seriously look inside yourself… is it true?
Let’s say you are a guy… would you be interested in a woman that frustrates you? A woman that doesn’t support you? A woman that has hang ups about what society thinks instead of what you both think? A woman that wears the pants in the house because you aren’t sure?
Now, let’s turn this around and for the women… would you be interested in a guy that isn’t in charge? A guy that doesn’t make you feel safe and secure? A guy that defers to others all the time? A guy that doesn’t know what HE wants? A guy that apologizes all the time…
As you can see by now… both sexes are completely missing the path. As a result, there is massive confusion and unhappiness abounding (big stupid word of the day).
You see, we are biologically programmed to be different. And when we go against that programming… bad things happen.
So it is time for men to be men and women to be women… and let’s start attracting and making things happen right now! 
So guys, for the best dating books I suggest Double Your Dating as a primer how to get it right. The Art of Approaching Women is great for guys who need help approaching women they are attracted to but don’t know what to say.
But the best dating book that I can recommend is The Master Plan by Scot McKay. It covers everything you need to know how to become the man…
Good luck,
John
P.S. Look, I can understand that if money is tight for you because of this crappy economy… that you cannot afford these dating books for men.
Then you could look for dating forums for men. It isn’t the best way to go… but it is probably better than not knowing a thing what to do and getting rejected over and over by women and never knowing why. The thing I DON’T like about dating forums is that they are usually crude, frequented by guys that dispense “free advice” which is most likely to be dead wrong.
BUT if you are just being cheap… well, that is your prerogative. Then you will have to accept the fact that your dating progress with women will be stunted. Your choice man… (shrug)
P.P.S. If you have any questions about these dating books and programs for guys… now is the time to leave a comment. I will read them. And I will try to answer them. However, you DO have to leave a valid email when leaving a comment. It is designed that way so my blog can sort out the a-hole spammers from the comments left by real readers. And don’t worry, nobody will see your emails and you won’t be added to any email “lists.” Just be sure to check back to read the answers to your comment.
Topics: Dating Tips for Men | Tags: best dating books | 1 Comment »
May 3rd, 2009 at 3:45 pm
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