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First Date Ideas to Separate Yourself from the Crowd Part 3
How about cooking a simple and tasty dinner for her? Well, this is not recommended for a first date idea because of the fact that you really don’t know each other that well…
So what you DON’T want to do is invite a strange woman that you don’t know about… into your place. This is what first dates are all about… deciding whether or not she is good enough for you.
And the last thing you want to do is invite some strange person that may have sticky fingers into your house. I remember some girl was advertising herself on craigslist.org in Florida as a nude maid… and some sap fell for her… line and sinker. Because when he wasn’t watching her… she stole a lot of valuable stuff from his house and took off. Oh yeah… the guy was married and had lots of explaining to do when his wife came home.
Now, most women are NOT like this… but you don’t want to end up with the woman that IS like this…
Get the drift?
Not only women need to be safe from creeps… guys can also be taken advantage of… everyday.
So be sure before you invite her over for dinner. And let me be the first to say this… there is nothing like being attractive to a woman that you are interested in… a guy that knows his way around the kitchen.
Now you don’t have to be a world class chef… but you do have to make a dinner that is tasty… not too complicated and really good to look at too.
But not on the first date… perhaps the 3rd date or later is fine.
There are tons of creative and fun things that you can do for a first date… anything from drinking a cup of tea to taking a short walk along the beach. Keep it simple and pressure free. For both you and her.
And remember this… you don’t really need to impress her… so let her do most of the talking… and listen. Really listen to her man… girls love a man that listens.
It is all about connecting but that is a great subject for another time.
Until then… be good,
John
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