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It’s Spring Cleaning Time! Should You Clean Out Your Love Life?
OK… it is a little late for this but still…
Breaking up and getting back together with an ex-boyfriend is a very important topic with women. There are so many variables to consider and it is quite important to make the correct decision… and usually that is found in your heart. However, as Bob Grant likes to say, your heart can also be your worst enemy because you may choose to overlook fatal differences.
So today I decided to give out 3 simple and easy steps how to get your ex back (if you want to).
Step 1 – Be “OK” with the break up!
Nothing says, I’m cool and independent then telling your ex-boyfriend that you are OK with the breakup and moving on. It does a couple things to him… it tells him that you aren’t needy and insecure. It gives him a moment to really think about the relationship he had with you. And especially, it helps elminate the pain and stress of the break up. It calms the waters…
Step 2 – I want you to stop contacting your ex-boyfriend.
So don’t email him. Don’t text him. And definitely, don’t keep calling him! Just cut off all communications with him. It let’s him know that you are “moving on” and shows him what life without you is going to be like for him. It makes him rethink the relationship and gives him a chance to miss you.
Step 3 – Start planning for the 1st get together.
Like where to meet and what you want to talk about. But DON’T for the love of all things good… argue or get mad at him! Showing your emotions like that will convince him that he made the right decision to break up with you.
So here it is again, be OK with the breakup. Leave him alone. And plan for the get together.
Let me know by leaving a comment, if there is other ways that you have used with success, to get back together with your ex-boyfriend.
Thank you and good luck,
John 
Today’s Random Notes and Thoughts.
I don’t know about you but I’m thinking we are seriously overreacting to the Swine Flu. For those who haven’t been paying much attention (congratulations by the way), there was a outbreak of Swine Flu in Mexico. And while it is serious, the number of people affected is so small that it is statistically insignificant. In short, you probably have a much better chance of getting hit by a lightning!
And if you live in the United States… you probably have a better chance of getting hit by that same lightning twice. THAT is how absurd this is all getting…
To put things in perspective, more than 20,000 people die from influenza every year in United States. But you never hear about it. Less than 200 are dead Worldwide from the Swine Flu. All but one of them in Mexico. And that one was visiting United States. Some countries are going way overboard. In Egypt… kissing is banned.
Just in case, just wash your hands and don’t kiss any illegals.
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