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Internet Dating Advice for Singles to Avoid Married Men and Women on Dating Sites
Just like the real world… there are always people who think it is perfectly fine to cheat on their spouse and lie to singles about who they are. So the question arises… is the online dating scene any different from the real world in terms of those seeking singles for extra-marital affairs?
That is why I decided to write this blog post for Internet dating advice how to handle the question of married men and women that lie online.
So this is a good question… let’s start with the guys… normally, men are seen as the typical male that will cheat on their spouse at the drop of the dime. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. Women ALSO are actively seeking partners at online dating sites. Sometimes they are seeking for someone as a backup plan as opposed to being alone after the separation or divorce.
BTW, if this is you… you are looking for someone to have a fling with, they go to this site where everyone KNOWS that you are looking for an extramarital affairs.
Yes, there are some married people online but the far majority of the people at the online dating sites are real singles that are seeking the perfect someone for friendship, romance and more.
While the chances of encountering a married person online is small… it is still possible. So you need to take some precautions such as knowing the person before taking things too far.
For instance, most profiles are just that… a short info commercial about the best and attractive parts of someone. It isn’t always the truth. So take everything you read on the online profile with a grain of salt. Correspond a little to know them better. And as always, when you meet someone new… meet in a public place.
And sure, if you have been alone for a while and an attractive MOTOS approaches you… it is easy to feel flattered by the attention and throw caution out the window. But doing so is risky on so many levels.
Stick with your guns and make pretty damn sure that the person you may want to become romantically involved with doesn’t have another person at home.
Just pay attention to determine if the other party isn’t being completely up front about representing who and what they are.
Because the last thing that you want to be is someone who was the patsy… after finding out the other person is already in a committed relationship (ironic isn’t it)… you may feel embarrassed, angry or even ashamed of yourself. I want you to understand that you shouldn’t feel that way if it did happen to you. You didn’t lie… the other person did.
And that other person is just a loser in and out. So you are so much better off without that person… no matter how hot they are. Because let’s face it, if in a perfect world… this person fell in love with you… divorce their spouse and moved in together with you… how soon do you think this person is going to CHEAT ON YOU!!??
Yeah…
Cheating on the spouse is a personality defect and isn’t cool…
And you know what? Some online dating sites actually check you out before letting you join. They check out to see if you have a criminal record or a wedding license. But some folks can fall through the cracks. But you may want to report those people to the online dating sites right away so they can be banned permanently from ever bothering and misrepresenting themselves to singles again.
To sum it up… be sure to ask questions and pay attention to anything unusual to the other person’s behavior. And be prepared to “Next” that person right away if your instincts is troubled…
And one more thing… while it could happen to you… chances are still pretty remote. Most folks at online dating sites are genuine and real singles that are looking for a special person… can it be you?
Good luck with online dating,
John 
P.S. If you are frustrated with the lack of results from your online dating experience, then I strongly suggest that women check out Click with Him. And guys should check out Insider Internet Dating.
Topics: Online Dating | Tags: internet dating advice | 1 Comment »
July 9th, 2009 at 4:00 am
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