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Some Commitment Advice from Bob Grant LPC
Bob Grant LPC, the Relationship Doctor, was talking about this the other day… that he sees it over and over again and the #1 mistake he sees that most women make that drives their man away from commitment is…
I’ll get to that in a bit but first…
I wanted to make sure you know who Bob Grant is — and he is probably one of the TOP relationship expert for helping women find the man of their dreams…
And he doesn’t base his conclusions on theories or from deep in the College libraries… nope… Bob has a thriving practice in Atlanta that has literally helped hundreds of his clients find the perfect man for themselves.
But back to the topic on hand… the #1 reason why men all of a sudden become commitment phobic… can you guess what it its?
Let me give you a hint… are you happy? If not, do you think your man is supposed to make you happy?
Get it yet? When a woman expects a man to assume the responsibility of making HER happy… guess what? The guy starts rethinking everything…
And why not? Most folks aren’t happy one time or another… and the last thing you want to pile on top of it is adding additional responsibility of making YOU happy!!
This is what Bob Grant is trying to point out in his comment… so instead of expecting someone to make you happy… and fail and push him away…
You see, when you make a man responsible for making you happy, he starts to panic. He doesn’t know HOW to make you happy. It becomes too much pressure on him…
So why not focus on what makes you happy? Because let’s admit it… who better knows how to make you happy… then yourself!
Let me give you an example… take a politician for instance… no matter how popular he or she may be… half of that politician’s constituents will be unhappy with him/her job performance, right?
And no matter how hard that politician tries to please everyone… a lot of folks will STILL be unhappy and blame that politician for their unhappiness.
Do you see where I’m going here? Nobody can make you happy… forever. Well, only one person can… and that is YOU! 
My point is this… and I do have a point (so don’t listen to my distractors… they are never happy with me! )
Give your man a break and learn how to make yourself happy… And of course, that is hard… because if it was easy… why… EVERYONE could figure it out and be happy and contented with their life.
So here’s the thing… if you need some additional help figuring out how to make yourself happy AND have a wonderful and terrific man to be with… then you should absolutely check out Bob Grant’s book, How to Find the Man of your Dreams.
And don’t let the title of the book fool ya… that man could very well be the man you are having a relationship with right now!
And before I end this post… I want to make sure you also are aware of this… when you get Bob Grant’s book, you also get a 15 minute consultation with him… yes, no joking here… you actually get to talk to Bob Grant about whatever you want to talk about… your relationship… finding Mr. Right or any questions you may have about the concepts Bob puts out in his book.
Be sure to leave any comments or thoughts you have about this post below…
I wish you the most incredible and fantastic relationship that will satisfy all your emotional needs,
John
Today’s Random Notes and Thoughts:
Reuters – Global economic crisis hits German sex industry
Apparently, a popular “Men club” in Berlin is having a special… 70-Euros admission charge for unlimited food, drinks and sex between 10a.m. and 4p.m.
My thoughts: The food better be good… but I’ll take a pass on the drinks and sex…
Jewish students who heckled Ahmadinejad expelled from racism conference
“who shouted insults and threw small red clowns’ noses at Ahmadinejad.”
My thoughts: SHOES! You need to throw shoes at the Iranian President ArmAndNutJob…
J.
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