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Somewhere There is a Village Missing an Idiot Named Kanye West
What the hell, Kanye?
Everyone is talking about the MTV Video Music Awards last night… at the water coolers… on the phone… and you probably know by now why…
It involves a publicity stunt (I truly hope that what it was…) of Kanye taking away the mic from Taylor Swift in the middle of her acceptance speech for Best Female Video.
And proceeds to insult her by saying something along the lines of… “Hey Taylor, I’m really happy for you, but Beyonce had one of the best videos of all time.”
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Needless to say… Taylor was humiliated and cried off stage…
However, later on Beyonce stepped onstage for her acceptance speech for an award she won… she invited Taylor Swift to come back and try again (this time I’m sure someone was holding down Kanye backstage to keep him from putting his other foot in his mouth).
Now, not only is Taylor Swift a 19 year old girl with a bright future ahead of her… Kanye is a 32 year old man… which one do YOU think was more mature?
Now I don’t claim to be a mind reader but I really don’t know what the hell Kanye West was thinking…
Like a lot of guys… maybe he was trying to project confidence and get his fans to buy a bunch of his stuff with that stunt…
BZZZZ!!! I don’t think so! Confidence by definition is the ability to inspire confidence in OTHERS.
And putting down other people to pull your ego up is the classic example of a school yard bully. Here’s how to become the masculine man that inspires real confidence that high quality women love and are attracted to.
So a big FAIL for you, Kanye.
Perhaps Kanye West was trying to be funny?
Oh hell no! He wasn’t funny… he was just plain mean. And many guys get confused about David DeAngelo’s definition of using cocky and funny to attract women…
Women love to laugh… well, most of ‘em. And the ability to make them laugh does make you appear confident. But like Carlos Xuma says… tease them to please them…
And putting down women doesn’t please them at all… I really hope you can distinguish the difference here…
Whatever you were doing Kanye… it ain’t cocky and funny… it doesn’t please anyone…
And if that was a joke… Kanye… then you aren’t even half as funny as you think you are…
You made Taylor Swift cry, you moron…
So maybe Kanye was drunk? After all, the pre MTV pictures show Kanye holding a big bottle of whiskey.
Well, like they say for alcoholics… don’t make excuses for them… it only enables them to continue making bad choices.
Get some help Kanye… Really.
John
P.S. Kanye just wrote an apology to Taylor Swift on his blog… like his stunt at the MTV award ceremony… it was really lame. No points for you Kanye!
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