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What a Man Wants from his Wife to Improve Marriage Relationship Part 1

Marriages are not easy. It does take work and both parties have to do it. But I’m going to go in and explain the ways to improve marriage relationship starting with this blog post.

Now let’s face it… humans have been around for a million years or so. And for most of that time, men were the hunters. We had to go after the Wooley Mammoths and the saber tooth tigers.

It can’t be easy…

But back to the guys… they hunted. Or everyone starved to death. And to hunt you have to figure out what you want for dinner and then go out and get it. Many women will identify this stubborn characteristic of their guy. He says he is going to do something and does it no matter what anyone else is saying to him. No matter how his decision making may be flawed. He is going to do it.

In the modern world, well, we ain’t hunting anything. It’s either extinct or is illegal. But the very next best thing is for the guys to head over to the favorite deli and grab some sandwiches. It is just a guy thing… that primitime urge to hunt and bring home food. And besides, who doesn’t love a large meat sandwich with everything on it?

Hopefully, I laid out the guy’s perspective in an easy-to-understand way. That what guys want to do. Do their thing and win the game. So this is what guys need from their wives… the need to win. We want to feel that we won. Even though we may be dead wrong on some issues.

But does that mean we need to win every fight and argument? No. We do however love to feel like we are winners.

So if a woman expresses the trust and confidence that her husband is going to make the right decisions for her and the family, well, he is going to feel pretty good about it. And don’t be surprised that he will try to exceed your expectations that goes along with the responsibility.

However, if a woman belittles and makes her man small. Well, you can see the hunter connection breaking down. And he is going to feel like a loser. So ladies, it really does matter what you say to your guy.

I will be talking more about this in my next blog post.

Until then,

John