Fun Dating Ideas that Costs You Next to Nothing.

Traditionally, dates can be very expensive... and then you start thinking about romantic dating ideas such as jetting off to another country or going to a four star restuarant... it can all add up.

But can you get the same thing with fun dating ideas that are free?

In short, yes you can.

The key thing about romance is that women really want memories and great feelings rather than "things."

And this is where most guys fall flat on their faces. They give their dates flowers, fancy foods, jewelry, or perfumes... and then wonder why their dates want to 'just be friends.'

The very, very key thing about fun dating ideas is... confidence. Knowing how to pull it off... You see, it doesn't really matter where you take her... it matters how she perceives your efforts during the date. And how you make her feel about herself and you.

For instance, if you do the same exact thing just about every single guy does for years and years... namely a dinner and movie. Well, quite frankly... she is going to be bored to tears with you.

But if you do something that is really fun... for example... one of the best fun dating ideas I ever had cost me less than $5 bucks total.... and the girl I was dating... couldn't get enough of me. She had a fantastic time

So what was it? Well, we went to a laundromat and washed my sleeping bag. And while that was going on... we walked next door and got some cheap frozen ice cream. And the whole time... I was teasing her about the cheap date. And she was eating it up... she was laughing so hard...

I must have been really funny that day...

But I think you get the point here. Women love adventure and they love mystery... and they love a great theme. And best of all, it doesn't have to cost you a lot of money.

Get my drift here?

Practically anything goes... as long as it is interesting and unusual. And you bring your best version of yourself.

You could grab a couple of sandwiches, chips and drinks and go to a local park for a picnic. You could get some ice cream... a tabloid magazine and take that to the park... imagine how much fun you both can have reading the magazine... those tabloid magazines can be pure dynamite for humor.

Be sure to find some UFO articles and really play it up... and don't forget to taste each other's ice cream...

How about walking along the beach? On a warm and sunny day... there is bound to be lots of folks out there... and if you both like people watching or looking at other's dogs... this is a perfect opportunity to talk about what you are seeing.

Another thing is to read each other's favorite quotes. Sure, it does sound a little wimpy... but try it... select a quiet location... such as a flower garden or your backyard... and read a little poetry. You could even then try to write a little poem about each other.

And don't forget to bring a bottle of wine too... it seems the more wine you drink... the more romantic the poems get.

Of course the BEST thing that you could do is... talk to each other. This is something that is missing from a lot of relationships. It seems that we are always a little too busy to stop and listen to each other. Share each other's deepest feelings and concerns.

It is all about being human. And guys... be the listener here... not the talker. Let HER do all the talking... and you are going to be so surprised how feminine she is going to feel. And you my friend... will be her super-hero.

All from listening.

It is under-rated and you should just shut up and let her talk.

And for god's sakes... stay away from the TV or computers... that is the worst possible thing you can do when talking with a girl. Leave all electonic communication devices out of sight and off.

Another thing to try is to put a thoughtful note inside a ballon... blow it up... and then give it to her with a pin to pop it so she can read the note.

Of course... one of the best fun dating ideas is snuggling. Women love it when they can get close to a guy they feel good being with. Nothing sexual mind you... just holding her. Hugs are very important to women... and when they want a hug... you better step up and give her one...

Another fun dating ideas is to warm up some fondue chocolates and marshmellows, while snuggling... and then give each other a great back and foot massage. You could warm up some massage oil for a different feel.

The main thing about creative and fun dating ideas is that you need to constantly look for ways to be different...

So be the leader and lead her,

John Garret
Author of moderndatingsite.com

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